Being A Drummer Can Become A One Stop Shop For Life
Whilst it’s easy to define yourself by being a drummer, it can become problematic in the event that the label is taken away, such as being dropped by a band, collective or orchestra, record label or place of work. Those who have defined themselves by their job roles such as a drum tutor are then left grappling with both the loss of the job or role (which may include feelings like disappointment, rejection, abandonment, loss or financial anxiety) as well as potential fallout around a sense of who they are and self-worth.
This can be confusing, distressing, shameful and may bring up questions around relevance or whether you belong.
